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Hi Justin, I hear you on disapproval being a part of that which might help to socialise and give us a healthy sense of right and wrong, however, too many people live under the weight of societal expectations and potential judgement and disapproval — as a somatic coach I see this over and over again, the internalised voice of 'not good enough' and a sense of shame, no matter what they have achieved. Their external persona and inner authentic self are at odds.

What might be more helpful is being able to be attuned to yourself and your needs as well as to those of those around you, this often means transforming your relationship with yourself, and that might mean breaking away from standards and behavioural norms that no longer align with your value system—this can also often mean being willing to be disliked and to disappoint, to both mete out and endure and eventually become resistant (on some level) to disapproval. I believe my parents called it 'developing a thick skin.'

I hear you on AI as well. A friend told me recently that while being with people might be messy and inconvenient, it is worth the discomfort.

While I can agree with that, and firmly believe that human relationships are worth the effort, AI has been able to help propel me forward in ways I don't think a regular human relationship could.

AI is levelling the playing field in many sectors because it can really decrease the knowledge gap between those trained in law and lay people. As a lawyer, you may be skeptical of the ability of these LLMs, but many who previously have had no access to knowledge now have it at their fingertips. Technology is the great leveller.

I have long pondered about the role of AI in our world and what it will eventually mean when they take an embodied form and become indistinguishable from humans. This eventuality is something many have already envisioned. In a bid explore this, I watched 'After Yang' a movie recommended to me by Perplexity. After watching it, it made me reflect more deeply on some key and inescapable themes all humans struggle with, but it was beautiful to see how machines could bring us into a deeper journey therein.

https://medium.com/@Creaturae7/memory-love-loss-and-longing-in-after-yang-8f217b5f37a2

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